Violence Prevention Center holds a candlelight vigil of hope

Lindsey Gau speaks to the crowd at the candlelight vigil while Jessica Burks looks on. Staff photos Brian Larsen

Tissues for tears, sheets of music, and candles were available for the 25 or so folks who attended the Cook County Violence Prevention Center Candlelight Vigil of Hope, held at the Grand Marais Rec Park on the evening of April 19.

Candles were lit to illuminate a path of healing for survivors of sexual assault.

The weather was cold, and snow was peeking right around the corner, but the folks on hand were hardy and heartfelt.

Lindsey Gau, executive director of the Violence Prevention Center, talked about the impacts of sexual violence and how it impacts not just the survivor but the entire community. Lindsey’s co-worker, Jessica Burks read a poem and helped throughout.

Martha Finley, a local community member, brave and resolute, was the guest speaker. She dabbed at her eyes as she talked about her journey as a survivor of sexual assault; three and half years later, the pain is still there, and what it meant to confront her attacker in court.

After the vigil ended Marth Finley was congratulated for taking the brave step to talk about being sexually assaulted.

Rose Arrowsmith and Britt Malec sang several songs, some with the audience participating. Jaye White, a board member of the Violence Prevention Board, read a long poem about a mother talking to her daughter about surviving the ups and downs the world would throw at her.

How prevalent is sexual assault? Almost 42 percent (41.8 percent) of women in the U.S. have been victimized by some sexual violence, and about three percent of men have been victims of sexual violence.

Gau reminded that the Violence Prevention Center provides free and confidential services to anyone subjected to domestic violence, sexual assault, or human trafficking. If you need to call for support, the number is 218-387-1262 to talk with a trained advocate. The line is open 24 hours a day, seven days a week.

Britt Malec and Rose Arrowsmith led the singing at the candlelight vigil of hope.