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I went in last week for my COVID-19 injection. The nurse was a very kind man named Michael. I really wanted to give him a hug to show my appreciation or, at the very least, a handshake, but I stopped short of doing so. That is where we are, my friend, and it is awkward. No touching. And unless you have the high-tech “see-thru” mask, your smile is covered as well. How then do we show people we care? If you are from Minnesota with any kind of German or Scandinavian heritage, words are about as awkward as tickling yourself. It just doesn’t come naturally.
I think of the joke about the German man who loved his wife so much he ALMOST told her! Such a concept. Then I thought about NOTES. Maybe we could all carry around little notes of appreciation in our pockets, and when we felt the need to connect with someone, let the written word speak for us. Put four or five cute note cards in your purse and hand them out just because. It might make someone smile.
My sweet friend and I have been painting little ornaments to bring to the care center. We did gnomes for Valentine’s Day and now have some cute Easter decorations to deliver. My heart goes out to the residents who have not touched their families for almost a year. I have only visited my mother in-law behind a glass window. And forgive me for this comparison, but it’s like seeing a puppy in a pet shop. She has that “please take me with you” look in her eyes. I want to crawl through the glass and feel her warm hug. I’d wear a hazmat suit if I could.
Of course, there is always the neighborly gift of food. Our closest neighbors sent over THE MOST amazing cookie platter last Christmas. Lots of homemade treats and candies. I felt special just knowing they thought to share with our family. Every bite was delicious and appreciated. Neighbors helping neighbors get through this very lonely time. But what about now as this pandemic drags on? Maybe we can whip up a batch of cookies or quick bread for our neighbors and friends? I have three easy recipes here for you: just a few ingredients and your time. You might just get a smile and a wave through the window, but that’s good enough for me. Peace and hugs to you! Sandy
“A season of loneliness and isolation is when the caterpillar gets its wings. Remember that next time you feel alone.” — Mandy Hale
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